Surprise? [ She gives a little wave of her hands as they walk, letting his question roll over her like a soft wave. There were a million ways to answer that, some of which might not be so kosher, but... Eh. ]

Yeah, that's a little tricky... But, doable. Surround yourself with good people and make sure to take care of yourself. A little laughter really goes a long way. Or stupid movie nights with themed snacks, even just a walk or someone to silently sit on the floor with you until you feel like the bottom isn't falling out from under you anymore is pretty rad. [ You'll be okay, I know you will. You've done this before. It's like riding a bike after getting amnesia. Muscle memory. That all rests on the tip of her tongue, but she has no interest in bursting that bubble just yet. She'd rather not make him run away from her or never speak to her again. ]

Your first few events will be the hardest, and then you'll fall into the rhythm with everyone else. Every now and then, there'll be a doozy, but hey - you're never alone in the post-event whiplash when it's a bad one.