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[naughty_nurse]

What do you do when someone breaks your trust in them? Is there a way to regain it? Should it be regained? How do you learn to trust anyone again?

[And then, after some time...]

[PRIVATE VOICE TO FIDDLEFORD]

Is the offer for memory erasure... s-still open?

((OOC: unless stated otherwise, all her replies will be anon!))

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[screwedontight]

Depends on a lot of things. Why it was broken. Intent in breaking it. Do you want to forgive them or just tell them to fuck off.

You have to decide if you want them in your life anymore or not.

I'm told you don't let one person ruin you for everyone but if you figure everyone sucks, why give them chances?

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[naughty_nurse]

One of the problems is, I have issues about being alone. I desperately want people around me even if they hurt me.

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[shslliar]

[Because he isn't sure he likes what he sees, but he also might be called a hypocrite for giving advice on trusting people.]

Look, I know we're going anon here, but what happened? Did someone lie to you?

[naughty_nurse]

They didn't know they were lying. They thought they could keep a promise, but they didn't. Their own curiosity won out.

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[sonofab]

Depends how much value that person has in your life.
You can say you forgive them, but I suggest always keeping a wary eye.
Forgiveness is often mistaken for weakness and depending on the transgression, they'll likely hurt you again if you let your guard down.

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[naughty_nurse]

I'm in love with that person. At least, I think I am. I thought I was. It's all ready muddled now.

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[scathefires]

[Oh, good, a subject near and dear to Jason's heart.]

pro tip

dont

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[naughty_nurse]

[thanks bud.]

You make it sound so easy.

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[kingtrousele]

OF COURSE THERE'S A WAY TO REGAIN TRUST!!! I ALWAYS BELIEVE THAT PEOPLE SHOULD BE GIVEN A SECOND CHANCE. AND IF NOT THAT, THEN A THIRD OR A FOURTH CHANCE WILL DO TOO!!! AS FOR LEARNING TO TRUST ANYONE AGAIN...JUST REMEMBER THAT ONE PERSON SHOULDN'T ACCOUNT FOR EVERYONE IN THE ENTIRE WORLD. THERE ARE PLENTY MORE FISH IN THE SEA, AS THEY SAY! ...WHOEVER 'THEY' ARE, ANYWAY.

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[naughty_nurse]

But I was so close to this person. I feel like, since I can't trust them, how can I trust anyone else, especially people I've known in less time?

[angewiesen]

Depends on how it was broken. There are things you can forgive and things you can't. Or things you shouldn't.

[naughty_nurse]

What kinds of things shouldn't be forgiven?

[forwearemany]

A singular individual is not representative of the population as a whole.

Do you desire to trust them?

[naughty_nurse]

No, but I knew that person for so longer, longer than I know other people. Which makes me think if they could do it, others could do it too.

I want to trust people. But now I feel that if I do, I'm setting myself up for pain again.

[anon text]

[punful]

[He hopes this isn't... They wouldn't, right? He doesn't think they would.]

you take some time for yourself, look at things from all the angles

ask yourself if that person was worth it

there ends up being only two choices i guess

you either try and find a way to work through it

or you find a way to move on and leave that person behind


i'm sorry for whatever happened, by the way

trust is...hard

[naughty_nurse]

But in a place like Wonderland, can you really leave anyone behind when we're all stuck here together in one prison? I can't avoid them forever.

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[softspokenlandlord]

That is something you ought to decide based on the gravity of the actions taken to break that trust, don't you think?

Though...I would think that few are utterly unforgivable, right? Maybe that's just me being optimistic though.

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[naughty_nurse]

But what may be important to me may be unimportant to someone else.

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[mcgucket]

[oh.....]

Yes, it is. [...] I'd ask if you were okay, but I guess the answer to that is pretty obvious if you're askin' about this?

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[naughty_nurse]

B-But maybe I will be okay, once I forget!

[That's her desperate hope.]

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[moraloutrage]

Those are very heavy questions that you ask. I will do my best to answer them!

When someone breaks my trust in them, I feel very hurt! Sometimes, such betrayals are hard to accept or believe at all. But once it is accepted, the best thing to do is to try to find out why the betrayal occurred. Was it for an important reason? Can they still be trustworthy?

Ultimately, it is up to you to answers those questions. Only you can assess if that person is worthy of regaining trust!

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[naughty_nurse]

It wasn't for an important reason.

They broke a promise to me because they were curious.

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[ofletters]

Those are tough questions. I think it depends on the person.

Basically though you need to decide if you CAN trust people again. And then you either try that or you just can't trust anyone.

I'm sorry this happened to you.

[naughty_nurse]

I want to try, but it isn't easy. I keep thinking over and over, "what if"? How well can I really know anybody here?

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[mandrakes]

That may depend on the person in question, the situation, and of course yourself.

Sometimes it can feel that you will never be able to trust another person again, but I would say that is a rare truth.

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[naughty_nurse]

Is it really rare? Right now I feel like I'm doubting everyone I know.

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[trabryu]

i dunno prolly cant trust them anymore if they broke it
depends on who they are i guess
trusting someones always hard
trusting someone whos betrayed you is much harder

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why do you wanna give them the chance again

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[naughty_nurse]

I'm in love with them. At least I think I am. I know that I had problems with being aloe, and I need to be with people, even if they hurt me.

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[mydude]

The trick is to never trust anyone fully.
Then you're never disappointed when people end up being shitty.

[naughty_nurse]

"Fully"? So there's a percentage of trust that's okay?